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养儿一百岁,长忧九十九

yǎng ér yī bǎi suì, cháng yōu jiǔ shí jiǔ
Worry about your children from birth to old age.

Raise a child to one hundred years, worry for ninety-nine.

This saying expresses the endless worry parents have for the...

This saying expresses the endless worry parents have for their children, from birth until the parents are very old. It reflects the deep, lifelong emotional bond and responsibility of parenthood.

In Confucian culture, the parent-child relationship is the most fundamental of all human bonds. Parents are expected to care for their children throughout their lives, and this saying validates that endless concern as natural and noble.

Someone might say this when a parent admits they still worry about their adult child's job or marriage, or when a grandparent talks about their grandchildren's future.

This saying normalizes parental anxiety and devotion, signaling that it is not just acceptable but expected for parents to remain invested in their children's lives forever. It also expresses the depth of love in Chinese families.

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