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井水不犯河水

jǐng shuǐ bù fàn hé shuǐ
Well water and river water don't mix.

Well water doesn't offend river water.

It means that two parties should mind their own business and...

It means that two parties should mind their own business and not interfere with each other. It's a way of establishing clear boundaries and peaceful coexistence.

This saying comes from the natural separation of well water (groundwater) and river water (surface water). It's a common metaphor for maintaining social distance and avoiding conflict.

Someone might say this when they want to make it clear that they will not meddle in someone else's affairs and expect the same in return.

It's a polite but firm way to establish boundaries. It signals a desire for non-interference and mutual respect, which is often seen as a practical way to maintain harmony in a crowded society.

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