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财大气粗人义散,时衰道微友朋疏

cái dà qì cū rén yì sàn, shí shuāi dào wēi yǒu péng shū
When rich, arrogance scatters righteousness; when down, friends drift away.

Wealth big, temper rough, people's righteousness disperses; times decline, the Way weakens, friends become distant.

When people get rich, they often become arrogant and lose th...

When people get rich, they often become arrogant and lose their sense of justice; when they fall on hard times, even friends keep their distance. It's a cynical view of human nature and wealth's corrupting influence.

This saying reflects a traditional Chinese skepticism about wealth and social relationships. It warns that money changes people and that friendship is often conditional on status.

Someone might say this when observing a wealthy acquaintance act arrogantly, or when a friend disappears after you've lost your job or status.

It serves as a moral warning to stay grounded despite success, and as a consolation for those who've lost friends in hard times—it's not personal, it's human nature. The saying also encourages valuing loyalty over wealth.

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