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此仇不报非君子

cǐ chóu bù bào fēi jūn zǐ
A gentleman does not leave a wrong unavenged.

This grudge not avenged is not a gentleman.

If someone has been wronged, it is a matter of honor to seek...

If someone has been wronged, it is a matter of honor to seek revenge or justice. Failing to do so would be seen as cowardly or weak.

Rooted in the concept of '君子' (junzi), the ideal moral person, but here applied to the code of vengeance, reflecting a blend of Confucian honor and folk justice.

Someone might say this when they feel deeply insulted or betrayed and are determined to retaliate, or when encouraging a friend to stand up against an injustice.

It signals personal dignity and the refusal to be victimized. In a culture that values face, revenge restores social standing and demonstrates that one is not to be trifled with.

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