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醉翁之意不在酒

zuì wēng zhī yì bù zài jiǔ
To have an ulterior motive.

drunk old man's intention is not in the wine

Someone's real purpose is not what they appear to be doing —...

Someone's real purpose is not what they appear to be doing — there's a hidden agenda. The surface activity (like drinking) is just a pretext for something else.

This phrase comes from a famous essay by Ouyang Xiu, a Song dynasty poet, who wrote about enjoying the mountains and waters rather than the wine itself.

Someone might say this when a colleague invites them to a 'casual dinner' but then starts discussing business deals — revealing the real intention.

It's a subtle, indirect way to call out someone's hidden motives without direct confrontation, preserving face while signaling awareness.

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