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脚踏两只船

jiǎo tà liǎng zhī chuán
To play both sides / To have a foot in both camps.

Feet stepping on two boats.

This saying describes someone who tries to maintain two conf...

This saying describes someone who tries to maintain two conflicting positions, relationships, or opportunities at the same time, often for personal gain. It implies risk and untrustworthiness, as eventually one will have to choose and may fall.

The metaphor of standing on two boats is vivid in a culture with a long riverine and maritime history, where instability and danger are obvious.

Someone might say this when a person is dating two people simultaneously, or when an employee is secretly interviewing at a competitor while still working.

Chinese people use this saying to warn against duplicity and indecisiveness, signaling that such behavior is not only risky but also morally questionable, as it violates the cultural expectation of loyalty and clear commitment.

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