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酒肉朋友好找,患难之交难寻

jiǔ ròu péng yǒu hǎo zhǎo, huàn nàn zhī jiāo nán xún
Fair-weather friends are easy to come by; true friends in adversity are hard to seek.

wine-meat friends easy to find, adversity friendship hard to seek

A near-identical variant of the previous saying, emphasizing...

A near-identical variant of the previous saying, emphasizing that casual companions are abundant while loyal friends are precious and rare. It reminds people not to take true friendship for granted.

This variant is often used interchangeably with the previous one, showing how deeply this idea is embedded in Chinese folk wisdom.

Someone might say this when reflecting on their social circle, especially after moving to a new city or changing life circumstances and realizing who actually stayed in touch.

It reinforces the same cultural value — that adversity is the true test of friendship. The repetition of such proverbs in daily speech keeps this value alive in social consciousness.

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