Excessive politeness will not offend anyone — it is better to err on the side of being too courteous than too casual. It encourages people to use polite gestures and words generously.
In Chinese society, where face (mianzi) is critical, politeness is a protective shield. Even if someone finds your formality a bit much, they will not hold it against you.
It reduces social anxiety — by being overly polite, you signal respect and reduce the risk of unintentional offense. It also reinforces the cultural priority of harmony over efficiency.
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