A person's true character is only revealed over time, not through first impressions or short interactions. Patience is needed to truly know someone.
This saying is often paired with '路遥知马力' (a long road tests a horse's strength). It reflects the Chinese belief that time is the ultimate test of character.
Chinese people use this to caution against hasty judgments and to emphasize the value of long-term observation in relationships. It signals a deep cultural respect for patience and experience over snap judgments.
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