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得意莫忘形,失意莫失志

dé yì mò wàng xíng, shī yì mò shī zhì
Don't let success go to your head, and don't let failure crush your spirit.

When proud, don't forget your shape; when disappointed, don't lose your will.

This saying advises people to remain humble and grounded dur...

This saying advises people to remain humble and grounded during times of success, and to stay determined and hopeful during times of failure. It emphasizes emotional balance and resilience as key to long-term character.

Chinese culture values moderation and self-control, especially in emotional expression. This saying reflects the Confucian ideal of 'zhong yong' (the middle way), where extremes of emotion are seen as dangerous.

Someone might say this when a friend gets a promotion and starts acting arrogant, or when another friend is going through a tough breakup and feels hopeless.

Chinese people use this saying to teach emotional discipline — it's a reminder that both pride and despair are temporary, and that one's true character is shown by how they handle both. It signals a mature, steady mindset that is respected in Chinese society.

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