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沉默是金

chén mò shì jīn
Silence is golden

Silence is gold

This saying values silence as a precious asset, suggesting t...

This saying values silence as a precious asset, suggesting that staying quiet can be wiser than speaking. It means that sometimes restraint in speech prevents conflict, reveals wisdom, or protects one's interests.

This is a widely used proverb across cultures, but in Chinese context it aligns with Confucian ideals of self-control and Daoist appreciation for stillness. It is often invoked in professional or social settings to advise caution.

Someone might say this when a colleague is about to argue with a boss, and a friend whispers to hold their tongue.

Chinese people use this to signal maturity and strategic thinking, especially in hierarchical or tense situations. It emphasizes that words can be costly, and that silence can be a form of power, not weakness.

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