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雪中送炭

xuě zhōng sòng tàn
To offer timely help.

Send charcoal in the snow.

This means to provide help or support to someone exactly whe...

This means to provide help or support to someone exactly when they need it most, especially during a crisis or hardship. It is considered a noble and deeply appreciated act.

This is a classic Chinese idiom with roots in ancient poetry. It contrasts with '锦上添花' (adding flowers to brocade), which means giving unnecessary help to those who are already well-off.

Someone might say this when a neighbor brings food to a family after a death, or when a friend lends money to another who is about to be evicted.

Chinese people use this saying to praise genuine compassion and solidarity. It signals that true moral worth is demonstrated in times of adversity, and it reinforces the cultural expectation that community members should support each other in difficult times.

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