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嘴上一套,心里一套

Zuǐ shàng yī tào, xīn lǐ yī tào
Saying one thing, thinking another.

One set on the mouth, another set in the heart.

This describes someone who is insincere or two-faced, saying...

This describes someone who is insincere or two-faced, saying what pleases others while hiding their true intentions. It's a criticism of hypocrisy.

In a culture that values indirect communication, this behavior is especially frowned upon because it breaks trust. It's often contrasted with '表里如一' (being the same inside and out).

Someone might say this about a colleague who compliments you to your face but sabotages you behind your back.

It warns against duplicity and encourages authenticity. By naming this behavior, it helps people identify untrustworthy individuals and protect themselves.

#honesty #human-nature #caution

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