People in the same profession often compete and become rivals, while couples who have different careers or interests may have a more harmonious marriage because they don't compete directly.
This reflects traditional Chinese wisdom about competition and marriage. In a society where face and status matter, direct competition between spouses could threaten family harmony.
It offers a practical observation about human nature: competition breeds conflict. By separating domains, couples can avoid jealousy and power struggles, preserving harmony at home.
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