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在家靠父母,出门靠朋友

zài jiā kào fùmǔ, chūmén kào péngyǒu
At home, rely on your parents; away from home, rely on your friends.

at home rely parents, go out rely friends

This proverb emphasizes the importance of family as your pri...

This proverb emphasizes the importance of family as your primary support system and friends as your extended support network when you are away from home. It highlights the value of building strong social connections.

In Chinese culture, guanxi (relationships/connections) are crucial for navigating life, especially in a society where personal networks often determine access to opportunities and resources.

Someone might say this when moving to a new city and asking a friend for help, or when advising a young person to be sociable and build a network.

This saying reinforces the social norm of interdependence. It signals that it's not only acceptable but expected to rely on your social network for support, and it encourages people to cultivate friendships as a form of social capital.

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