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人前若荐贤,必有私心焉

rén qián ruò jiàn xián, bì yǒu sī xīn yān
Publicly recommending someone may hide selfish motives.

If in front of people one recommends a worthy person, there must be selfish intent.

If someone loudly praises or recommends another person in pu...

If someone loudly praises or recommends another person in public, especially when not asked, they may have a hidden agenda—such as currying favor, building alliances, or promoting someone for their own benefit.

This is a cynical but practical observation from Chinese political and social history, where public recommendations were often strategic moves. It reflects a deep awareness of indirect communication and hidden motives.

Someone might say this when a colleague suddenly praises another in a meeting, and others suspect they are trying to form a faction or gain a favor in return.

This saying encourages critical thinking about public gestures. In a culture where direct confrontation is avoided, people often use praise as a tool—so this proverb warns listeners to look for the subtext.

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