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人穷莫说话,位卑莫劝人

rén qióng mò shuō huà, wèi bēi mò quàn rén
When poor, don't speak up; when low in status, don't advise others.

When poor, don't talk; when status is low, don't persuade people.

In a hierarchical society, your words carry weight only if y...

In a hierarchical society, your words carry weight only if you have wealth or status. If you're poor or low-ranking, your advice will be ignored or even resented, so it's better to stay silent.

This is a cynical but realistic observation about social hierarchy and the pragmatics of influence. It reflects a society where credibility is often tied to position rather than the quality of one's argument.

Someone might say this to a junior employee who tries to correct a senior manager, or to a poor relative who offers advice at a wealthy family gathering — a warning to know one's place.

Chinese people use this to teach social awareness and strategic silence. It's not about accepting injustice but about recognizing the reality that unsolicited advice from a low-status person is often counterproductive. It signals practical wisdom about power dynamics.

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