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打开天窗说亮话

dǎ kāi tiān chuāng shuō liàng huà
Open the skylight and speak plainly.

Open the skylight, speak bright words.

This means to speak openly and directly, without hiding anyt...

This means to speak openly and directly, without hiding anything or using euphemisms. It's an invitation to be frank and transparent, especially in negotiations or discussions where honesty is needed.

In Chinese communication, indirectness is often the norm to maintain harmony. This saying is a deliberate break from that norm, signaling a moment where directness is necessary and acceptable. The 'skylight' metaphor suggests letting light into a dark room—bringing clarity.

Someone might say this when starting a difficult conversation, like telling a friend the real reason for a conflict, or in a business meeting when it's time to stop beating around the bush.

Chinese people use this saying to create a safe space for honesty. It signals that the speaker values truth over politeness in that moment, and it gives both parties permission to drop pretense, which can actually strengthen trust and efficiency.

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