This means that the bond of marriage, even if brief, creates deep mutual obligation and affection. It encourages couples to cherish their connection and endure hardships together.
In traditional Chinese marriage, which was often arranged, love was expected to grow from duty and shared life. This saying legitimizes that slow-burning affection as real and valuable.
This saying functions as a glue for marriage, emphasizing that the emotional investment of even one day is enough to build a foundation of gratitude ('en') that should outlast any conflict. It discourages impulsive divorce.
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