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一朝被蛇咬,十年怕井绳

Yī zhāo bèi shé yǎo, shí nián pà jǐng shéng
Once bitten, twice shy.

Once bitten by a snake, fear a well rope for ten years.

This means that a single traumatic experience can cause long...

This means that a single traumatic experience can cause long-lasting, irrational fear of similar things. It warns against letting past hurts blind you to present reality.

The image of a well rope (which looks like a snake in dim light) is vivid and practical, drawn from rural life. It reflects a common human tendency to overgeneralize from bad experiences.

Someone might say this when a friend who was cheated in business refuses to trust anyone again, even a clearly honest partner.

This saying validates the pain of past trauma while gently pointing out its irrationality. It encourages people to acknowledge their fear but also to distinguish between real threats and harmless reminders.

#caution #hard-times #human-nature

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