Elders have life experience and their advice is usually practical. If you ignore it, you'll quickly face negative consequences—often sooner than you expect.
Chinese society traditionally values age and experience. Elders are seen as repositories of wisdom, and this saying is a gentle (or not-so-gentle) reminder to respect that hierarchy.
This saying enforces social order by validating the authority of elders. It's a practical warning wrapped in cultural respect—by framing it as 'you'll suffer,' it appeals to self-interest rather than just duty, making the advice harder to dismiss.
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