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娘痛儿,路样长;儿痛娘,线样长

Niáng tòng ér, lù yàng cháng; ér tòng niáng, xiàn yàng cháng
A mother's love for her child stretches like a long road; a child's love for its mother is but a short thread.

Mother's love for child is as long as a road; child's love for mother is as long as a thread.

This saying poignantly illustrates the asymmetry between a p...

This saying poignantly illustrates the asymmetry between a parent's love and a child's love. A mother's care and devotion are boundless and lifelong, while a child's love, though genuine, is often shorter and less intense. It serves as a reminder of the depth of parental sacrifice and encourages children to be more grateful and attentive.

This proverb reflects the deep cultural value of filial piety (孝, xiào) in Chinese society. It is often recited to remind adult children of their parents' sacrifices and to urge them to care for their aging parents with more dedication.

Someone might say this when reflecting on their own parents' sacrifices, or when gently scolding a friend who neglects their aging mother.

This saying evokes deep emotion and moral obligation. It signals that filial piety is not just a duty but a response to an immeasurable debt of love. It functions as a cultural corrective to the natural tendency of children to prioritize their own lives over their parents.

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