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嫁人嫁心,不嫁财

jià rén jià xīn, bù jià cái
Marry a man for his heart, not his money.

Marry a man for heart, not for wealth.

A woman should choose a husband based on his love, sincerity...

A woman should choose a husband based on his love, sincerity, and character, not his financial resources. Wealth can be lost, but a good heart remains.

This saying counters the materialistic tendency in marriage arrangements, promoting the idea that emotional connection is more enduring than money.

Someone might say this to a woman who is considering a wealthy suitor but doubts his feelings, reminding her that true happiness lies in love, not luxury.

It reinforces the value of emotional authenticity in marriage, warning that a marriage built on money is fragile and may lead to unhappiness when wealth diminishes or love is absent.

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