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言多必失

yán duō bì shī
Loose lips sink ships.

Many words must have loss.

This warns that the more you talk, the more likely you are t...

This warns that the more you talk, the more likely you are to say something wrong, offensive, or revealing. Silence is safer than excessive speech.

Confucian and Daoist traditions both value restraint in speech. In Chinese culture, listening more and speaking less is seen as a sign of wisdom and maturity.

Someone might say this when a person keeps talking in a meeting and accidentally reveals a secret, or when a friend gossips and gets into trouble.

It's a cautionary proverb that promotes self-discipline. It signals that careful speech protects both oneself and others, and that silence is often more respected than chatter.

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