This is a variant of the previous saying, with 'choose' (选) replacing 'enter' (入). It carries the same meaning: the most critical decisions for a man and a woman are his career and her marriage, respectively.
This version is also widely used and reflects the same traditional values regarding gender roles and life choices. The slight variation in wording does not change the core message.
This saying functions as a piece of cautionary wisdom, passed down through generations. It signals the high value placed on stability and security, and the belief that a wrong choice in these foundational areas can have long-lasting negative consequences.
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