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赔了夫人又折兵

péi le fū rén yòu zhé bīng
Lose the wife and lose the soldiers too.

Lost the wife and also broke the soldiers

It means suffering a double loss—losing both what you alread...

It means suffering a double loss—losing both what you already had and what you tried to gain. It describes a failed scheme that backfires completely.

From the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, where Zhou Yu's plan to trap Liu Bei ended with Liu Bei marrying Sun Shangxiang and Zhou Yu losing troops. It's a classic example of a clever plan that backfires.

Someone might say this when a business deal falls through and they also lose their initial investment, or when a person tries to outsmart someone but ends up worse off.

It's a vivid, humorous way to describe failure and serves as a cautionary tale against over-clever scheming. It reminds people that pride and cunning can lead to greater losses.

#caution #humor #human-nature

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