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久病床前无孝子,久贫家中百事哀

jiǔ bìng chuáng qián wú xiào zǐ, jiǔ pín jiā zhōng bǎi shì āi
A long illness has no filial son; long poverty brings a hundred sorrows at home.

Long illness before bed no filial son; long poverty in the home, a hundred matters are sorrowful.

This extended version adds that prolonged poverty, like illn...

This extended version adds that prolonged poverty, like illness, erodes family harmony and patience, leading to constant misery and conflict. It highlights how external hardships test familial bonds.

This saying reflects the Chinese understanding that material conditions deeply affect moral behavior and family relationships, a realistic take on the limits of virtue under duress.

Someone might say this when discussing a family struggling with both a sick member and financial strain, to express the compounded difficulty.

It's a sobering reminder of the interconnectedness of health, wealth, and relationships, and it encourages empathy for those in prolonged hardship.

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