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人在江湖,身不由己

rén zài jiāng hú, shēn bù yóu jǐ
Once you're in the game, you can't always play by your own rules.

People in the rivers and lakes, the body cannot be controlled by oneself.

This saying means that once you are involved in a certain so...

This saying means that once you are involved in a certain social circle, profession, or conflict, you are bound by its rules and pressures. You may have to do things you don't want to do because circumstances force you.

'江湖' (jianghu) originally referred to the world of martial arts and wandering heroes, but now means any competitive or complex social environment. It implies that certain worlds have their own codes that override personal wishes.

Someone might say this when they are forced into a difficult decision at work, or when they must go along with group politics despite personal objections.

This saying provides a face-saving excuse for actions that might otherwise seem unethical or weak. It signals that the speaker is not fully in control, which elicits sympathy and reduces judgment from others.

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