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难得糊涂

nán dé hú tú
Ignorance is bliss.

Hard to get, muddled/confused.

This saying suggests that sometimes it is wiser to appear fo...

This saying suggests that sometimes it is wiser to appear foolish or to deliberately ignore certain things rather than to be overly sharp or confrontational. It advocates for a strategic blurring of vision to maintain peace and happiness.

This phrase is famously attributed to the Qing dynasty painter Zheng Banqiao. It reflects Daoist and Confucian ideas about the value of simplicity and the danger of being too clever, especially in complex social or political situations.

Someone might say this when a family member chooses not to confront a spouse about a small lie, or when an employee decides not to point out a boss's mistake to keep the workplace peaceful.

Chinese culture often values harmony over absolute truth. This saying signals a mature, flexible approach to life—acknowledging that not every issue needs to be dissected, and that sometimes 'playing dumb' is a form of wisdom that preserves relationships and reduces stress.

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