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杀父之仇,不共戴天

Shā fù zhī chóu, bù gòng dài tiān
The murder of one's father is an irreconcilable enmity.

The hatred of killing one's father, cannot share the same sky.

This saying expresses the ultimate, unforgivable nature of c...

This saying expresses the ultimate, unforgivable nature of certain wrongs, particularly the murder of one's parent. It signifies that such an offense creates an eternal enmity that can never be forgiven or coexisted with.

In traditional Chinese culture, filial piety (孝) was the highest virtue, and avenging one's father was considered a sacred duty. This saying reflects the deep moral weight placed on family loyalty and honor.

Someone might say this when describing an irreconcilable conflict, or when emphasizing the seriousness of a betrayal or harm done to one's family. It is also used figuratively to describe any unforgivable offense.

This saying underscores the absolute importance of family in Chinese culture. It signals that certain boundaries, once crossed, can never be repaired, and that family honor is worth defending at any cost.

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