This is an extended version of the previous saying, adding that physical attacks on the face are especially humiliating. It emphasizes that both verbal and physical conflicts should respect a person's dignity and avoid permanent damage to their reputation or self-respect.
The face (脸) is a powerful symbol of honor in Chinese culture. Striking someone's face is considered the ultimate insult, as it publicly shames them. This saying is a fundamental rule of conflict in Chinese social life.
This saying codifies the boundaries of acceptable conflict in Chinese culture. It signals that even enemies should be treated with a baseline of respect, and that going too far will make you lose moral ground and social standing.
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