Similar to the previous saying, this emphasizes that children should be corrected openly to teach them proper behavior, while a wife should be guided privately to avoid public embarrassment. It highlights the different expectations for children and spouses.
This is a common variant of the same proverb, reflecting the patriarchal structure of traditional Chinese society where the husband holds authority but is also expected to protect his wife's dignity.
The saying reinforces the idea that discipline is a form of care, but its method must vary by relationship. It signals that public correction is for upbringing, while private correction is for partnership, preserving harmony in both.
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