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人情大于王法

rén qíng dà yú wáng fǎ
Personal connections outweigh the king's law.

Human feelings greater than royal law.

This saying criticizes situations where personal relationshi...

This saying criticizes situations where personal relationships and favors are more influential than formal laws or rules. It implies that in practice, who you know matters more than what is right, often leading to injustice.

This reflects a long-standing tension in Chinese society between rule by law and rule by relationships ('guanxi'). Historically, officials often granted favors to kin and allies, undermining legal fairness.

Someone might say this when a well-connected person gets a traffic ticket dismissed while a common citizen is fined, or when a relative gets a job through connections instead of merit.

Chinese people use this to express frustration with nepotism and corruption, while also acknowledging the practical reality of 'guanxi'. It signals a cynical awareness that social capital often trumps formal justice.

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