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有关系好办事

yǒu guān xi hǎo bàn shì
It's who you know, not what you know.

Having connections makes things easy to do.

Having the right personal connections (guanxi) makes it easi...

Having the right personal connections (guanxi) makes it easier to get things done, whether in business, bureaucracy, or daily life.

This reflects the deep importance of 'guanxi' (关系) in Chinese society, where personal networks often matter more than formal rules or merit.

Someone might say this when a friend gets a job through a relative, or when a business deal is clinched through a mutual acquaintance rather than a formal process.

It acknowledges the practical reality that relationships lubricate social and professional interactions. It also signals the cultural expectation to build and maintain networks, and it can be said with a mix of cynicism and pragmatism—recognizing that this is how the world works.

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