This saying means that certain criticisms, corrections, or sensitive topics should only be discussed privately within the in-group, not in front of outsiders. It emphasizes protecting the group's image while still addressing issues internally.
This reflects the Chinese concept of 'inside vs. outside' (内外有别), where different rules apply to in-group and out-group interactions.
Chinese people use this saying to maintain group cohesion and save face, signaling that internal problems should be resolved within the family or team to avoid public embarrassment and preserve collective honor.
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