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软的欺,硬的怕

ruǎn de qī, yìng de pà
Bullies are cowards at heart.

Bully the soft, fear the hard.

This saying describes people who pick on those weaker than t...

This saying describes people who pick on those weaker than themselves but back down when facing someone stronger. It criticizes those who lack courage and only dare to bully the vulnerable.

In Chinese culture, there is a strong emphasis on justice and protecting the weak. This saying is often used to mock or warn against such cowardly behavior.

Someone might say this when observing a person who is rude to a quiet coworker but overly polite to the boss.

Chinese people use this saying to call out unfair behavior and to remind others that such cowardice is shameful. It serves as a social critique, encouraging people to be brave and fair.

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