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亲兄弟也要明算账

qīn xiōng dì yě yào míng suàn zhàng
Even brothers should settle accounts clearly.

Blood brothers also must clearly calculate accounts.

Even between the closest people, such as siblings, financial...

Even between the closest people, such as siblings, financial matters should be handled clearly and transparently. This prevents misunderstandings and preserves the relationship.

In Chinese culture, where family ties are extremely strong, money disputes are a common source of conflict. This saying is a practical safeguard to protect family harmony by avoiding ambiguity in financial dealings.

Someone might say this before lending money to a relative, or when a business partnership with a friend is being formed, to set clear expectations.

It's a pragmatic approach to relationships, acknowledging that money issues can ruin even the closest bonds. By being upfront about finances, it actually protects the emotional relationship from potential damage.

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