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吃着碗里的,望着锅里的

chī zhe wǎn lǐ de, wàng zhe guō lǐ de
The grass is always greener on the other side.

Eating from your bowl while staring at the pot.

This saying describes someone who is never satisfied with wh...

This saying describes someone who is never satisfied with what they have and is always coveting what others have or what is just out of reach. It's a criticism of greed, restlessness, and lack of contentment.

The imagery is from a communal meal: you have food in your bowl, but you're already eyeing the pot for more. This reflects the Chinese cultural emphasis on contentment (知足, zhī zú) and the social disapproval of greed.

Someone might say this when a person in a relationship is flirting with others, or when an employee is always complaining about their job while not appreciating its benefits.

This saying is a gentle but pointed rebuke. It signals that the speaker values contentment and loyalty, and it serves to shame the listener into appreciating what they have rather than constantly seeking more.

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