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吃着碗里的,看着锅里的

chī zhe wǎn lǐ de, kàn zhe guō lǐ de
The grass is always greener on the other side.

Eating from your bowl while looking at the pot.

This is a slight variant of the previous saying, using '看着' ...

This is a slight variant of the previous saying, using '看着' (look at) instead of '望着' (gaze at). The meaning is identical: it criticizes insatiable greed and the inability to appreciate what one already has.

This version is equally common and interchangeable with the first. Both are used in everyday speech to describe covetous behavior, whether in love, career, or material possessions.

Someone might say this when a friend is never satisfied with their partner, always comparing them to others, or when a businessman is always chasing the next deal instead of consolidating his current gains.

Like the previous variant, this saying serves as a social corrective. It signals that the speaker values moderation and gratitude, and it warns against the dangers of endless desire, which can lead to losing what you already have.

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