People naturally associate with those who are similar to them in character, interests, or social status. Your social circle reflects who you are.
This is a shortened version of the fuller saying '物以类聚，人以群分' (things are grouped by kind, people are divided by group). It is used both descriptively and as a warning about the company you keep.
In a culture that emphasizes social harmony and networks (关系), this saying reminds people that their associations define them. It encourages self-reflection about one's peers.
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